The Soul Travel

We live in a world that has built the illusion to the rank of truth. We rarely show what we feel, what we really believe, nor do we admit! Most of our activities are based on the denial of a part of our reality. We live in a culture of secrecy, and lies at the heart of our psyche. It is a fundamental paradigm rooted in our fear of disappearing and our need for love. We are driven to create artificial personalities which we become addicted to get attention, be loved, validated and recognized, to be successful, although sale, keep your gains ... and "run" more or less effectively in the world. This dependence is a real trap that draconian cuts us gradually from our true nature. We exchange our deepest reality against a semblance of social integration. We sacrifice our truth on the altar of security and compliance. Our commitment to an "ideal image" of ourselves us away from our sensitivity prevents us from experiencing the love and deprives us of authentic relationships with each other. "Every time I shut an emotion (fear of offending the other and lose it), whenever I pretend to be happy (as a deep voice or act hurt me), whenever I say yes, so basically it's not (because I'm afraid that I judge), every time I do something against my deep emotion (to satisfy someone else) each time I say the words that I do not believe (because I'm ashamed of what I really feel) ... I cheated and I walk away from my authenticity. " By dint of denying us and we comply, we do not know who we really are, what we want or what we like! What was personal, singular, different, was strangled, erased, hidden. Gradually, we organize our actions and our entire universe according to another. The other to which we want to present a "good image" (what we think we need to be, do or say) to be like him! The other we end up moving to center ourselves and we will seek to protect us paradoxically to preserve a minimum of integrity. The other we become to ourselves, to force us to judge, not to respect us, to do violence ... While all combine to "screw" in us the belief that to be loved, to be someone, you have to have certain behaviors and not others ... While everyone is trying, more or less , using the other to meet its own shortcomings, needs love, expectations ... Why, however, be manipulated like this? And if, instead of looking compulsively love each other, we felt that tender feeling of love in ourselves? And if instead we comply with the other supposed expectations, we respond primarily to our Heart, closer to His Truth? Can we regain our inner self, our freedom to be who we really are? Can we take the risk of authenticity and transparency? "Intimate contact, painful, with my sense of vulnerability, smallness. I feel how it triggers my fear, my insecurity. I see how this fear projected me to you with the energy of despair, to reassure me. Or tears welled long. Many waters have washed my heart. Another way than to be strong ... A small path among the boughs I would venture naked, fragile, with fear leash. I can not survive the abandonment This "mechanism deportation" only one condition: accept to feel everything feel that everything can be hosted in me without conditions or limitations. Open the door and let the wave pass, broke even. Who cares! When the waters recede, we can see that they have designed a new territory: a mossy hollow in which to expand ... This brings me back to the hollow true Life. This is where I feel being. " This is where we expect our soul, in the heart of intimacy, the heart of the Sacred. It invites us to take this journey brings us back to the true Life. 100 books to read